The best 'first line of a book' EVER:
"Do not read and reread a man's text message, or e-mail or listen to his voice message, over and over again. Do not try to delve into his words for hidden meaning, or call your friends to get their opinions on "what he really means." It's a message, not the Constitution- you're not supposed to study it."
Misery Loves Cabernet
I'd really love for that little tidbit of advice to sink in.s